Thursday, March 18, 2010

Today

My heart is heavy for you today T. I miss you boy.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Miss you

Three years have passed and we are learning to manage the pain of your death and unfinished life.
Love
Grandad & Grandma
South Africa
2010 01 23

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Three years old

Trevor,
Happy 3rd birthday our darling angel.

That is how we will always remember you.

You will never be a terrible 2 year old
an exciting 3 year old
nor a mischievous 4 year old
nor an adventurous 5year old.

You will always be missed and loved.

Granddad & Grandma
In South Africa
2009 09 12

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Darling Trevor,

Another year gone by and we are still no closer to understanding your death. Granddad and I think of you daily and can just imagine what a wonderful grandson you would have been.
We will love you and miss you always.
Granddad & Grandma

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Happy birthday baby boy

Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday dear Trevor
Happy birthday to you

Love you T

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Happy Birthday Trevor

Happy birthday darling Trevor,
You are 2 years old today. We can only imagine what you would have looked like and what you would be doing. Your short life left such a deep impression on us, never to be forgotten.
Time does not heal. We have just learnt to accept and live with the sorrow. You will always be a part of our lives even if only in spirit.
Love you.
Grandma and Granddad
2008 09 12

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Your second birthday is coming

Hey little T

It is hard to believe that in a few days you would have been two years old. Mommy and I talk about you often and wonder what you would be like, we wish you were here so we could see for ourselves rather than rely on our imagination. I was listening to a song the other day the words went as follows, "you are not dead, you are just living in my head". I guess thats where you are going to be for the rest of my life.

I think of you every single day, whether for a brief moment or long enough to cry. It seems crazy to me but I find a strength and a calm in you. When I am having a rough day at work all I have to do is look at the pictures of you, that I carry with me, and everything gets put back into perspective - you make me feel like nothing is that big of a deal.

Your brother is 4 months old now. I look into his beautiful blue eyes, much the same as yours, and I see life, that I once saw in yours. The last time I looked into your eyes, you were lying on a hospital bed, and it was then that I knew you were gone. Looking into your brothers eyes I get to see you, I get to see life.